The Cost of Words and Self-Perception

We all talk about other people. When people aren’t around, we talk about them. It’s gossip. It’s not necessarily negative, a lot of this talk can be positive. A lot of it is also negative though. It’s almost therapeutic I suppose. It makes us feel good to bad mouth someone else. Putting down other people… Continue reading The Cost of Words and Self-Perception

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Being Insecure and Linguistic Relativity

I take it all in. I can’t help it. You probably can’t either. I absorb it all. I hear how people talk about me, be it good or bad. I pick up on how you feel towards me. I notice the small subtleties of how you treat everyone slightly differently based on your unique relationship… Continue reading Being Insecure and Linguistic Relativity

Poetry: ‘No Answers’

I don't post poems up here a lot, mainly because I think it's pretentious as f**k and absolute #Notions and all that. But this one is different. It kinda captures some of the atmosphere that comes with someone dying by suicide. At least it resonates with how it makes me feel anyway. I wrote this… Continue reading Poetry: ‘No Answers’

A Light in the Dark: Talk About Suicide

I write about suicide a lot. You’ve probably noticed this. I purposely bring it up. I talk about it a lot, I write about it. I make it a topic to talk about. There’s a reason. I kinda want it to become the case that you read about it so much that, it becomes less… Continue reading A Light in the Dark: Talk About Suicide

Stress, Overthinking, & Computer Back-ups

It was a Tuesday. I wasn’t feeling great, my throat and chest were at me, the bastards. I was still pretty tired from the Stag the weekend before, but I was sitting down to be productive, get some work done. This was the beginning of the most stressful period of my Masters so far. How… Continue reading Stress, Overthinking, & Computer Back-ups

‘You Know This Person’

Right now you know someone. You know someone who has everthing going for them. You know someone who succeeds at school. Who succeeds at playing sport. You know someone who everybody seems to know, or have heard of. You know someone who has ‘everything going for them.’ You know someone who is handsome, or pretty.… Continue reading ‘You Know This Person’

‘I Don’t Want A Relationship’

I always say I don’t want a relationship. I don’t want a relationship. I don’t want one. I’m too young. There’s no point. Yeah, cool. I’ve been saying that since I was 17, it doesn’t cut it anymore. There’s a common reason for why people choose to be on their own, whether they admit it… Continue reading ‘I Don’t Want A Relationship’

The #VillainTheory and Emotional Intelligence

There’s been a few thoughts floating around my head the last week or so. At first I thought they were completely independent but I realized pretty quickly that they’re connected. I’ll explain both of them briefly anyway and we’ll go from there. If you follow me on Twitter (@DaraghFleming) you might have noticed that I… Continue reading The #VillainTheory and Emotional Intelligence

Kilogram Faeries

“Pure shreds bro, push day got me all types of swole. Absolutely loving this new Under Armour gear too bro, abso comfort #irishfitfam #fitfam #protein #swole #followforfollow #shredz #Instafitfam” Kilo finished off his latest Insta caption and sent it off. It had 20 likes in the first 6 seconds. Pure viral, bro. He didn’t mind… Continue reading Kilogram Faeries

Why the Pro-Choice Movement is Convincing Me to Vote No

I’m totally aware of the sensitivity of this topic. Due to the title alone, I decided to not even send this to HeadStuff. because articles I’ve written in the past that have been ‘alternative-to-the-left’ have been rejected outright. Anyway, let’s get into it. It’s important to know beforehand, the definition of what Liberal political views… Continue reading Why the Pro-Choice Movement is Convincing Me to Vote No

This Isn’t Racist; You Are

No doubt you’ve seen the new H&M ad. That came out last week. No doubt you’ve seen the reaction to the picture. No doubt you’ve reacted to it yourself. It’s a situation for sure, but it’s not one I thought we’d get wrapped up in. Nevertheless, here we are. That picture is not racist. The… Continue reading This Isn’t Racist; You Are

Equality For All

In a lot of ways, we live in the most liberal era in the history of our species. We live in a time where, more and more people are comfortable with being themselves, are happier knowing and showing their truth. Daily people fight for equality and human rights in the social context. IT is clear… Continue reading Equality For All